I don't know if I ever mentioned this here or not...

My girlfriend and I are getting married this year on Halloween. With the over turning (for now) of the ban on Gay Marriage,we decided to get married. We had thought about it for a while but the thought of staging a "mock" wedding for our friend's/family seemed pointless and it took away from the main point of our day.

We are the same as anyone. We love each other and want to commit our love to each other in front our family/friends and celebrate it.

It seems simple enough to me. I'm a open minded person and always been that way.

So I'm stressed out. It should our day, you know, but you can prevent people from adding their own 2 cent's whether you want to hear it or not.

People are disturbed that we are holding a "Halloween Wedding" rathern than a traditional white on white wedding. Some people think it's respectful of the event.

Okay, honestly, the Halloween theme was picked for 2 reasons!

It's my favorite holiday and my girlfriend know's that and thought it would be cool to celebrate it then.

The other reason is because we felt that no one should be turned away or feel bad for not being able to afford that suit or that bridesmaid dress because they are too broke.

We can relate! Especially with the gas price's being so insane. So why not just come dressed in costume?! It's lending a sense of fun and interaction to the event.

Some people said they didn't feel comfortable acknowledging the fact two girl's are getting married. Bye... Don't need them. They don't need to come.

But for the most part, everyone has been so cool about it. My auntie and my cousin's (who I recently got back in touch with) are my saving grace! They are helping us so much.

We almost decided not to have a wedding because we were having trouble finding a place to have it at, and my aunt stepped up to the plate and saved our asses. They also promised me that if anyone start's anything (From interuppting the wedding with anti gay comments or start fighting, they will get asked to leave.)